Who Made You Spokesperson?

21 July 2024

When we think of people who speak on behalf of us, we usually think of someone elected or appointed to do so: a congressperson, a senator, maybe even a department chair. But what about people who aren’t elected or officially appointed? What if, say, one of your neighbors goes to a city council meeting and complains about all the noise on your street? They’re speaking on behalf of the whole street, including you—would you be pleased or upset that they said something?

Of course that might depend on (among other things) whether you're the one who was throwing that loud party. But either way, shouldn’t they check in with you and the other residents before speaking on your behalf? What gives them the right to think they represent the whole block? Aren’t they just busybodies, arrogating power to themselves in an undemocratic way?

Maybe, but who else is going to stand up against you and your raging improv nights? That person is doing a public service by taking the initiative to speak up. They may not have been appointed to any official role, but once they were there, everyone (except you) felt good about it—that’s a form of democratic endorsement. But should the same logic apply to constituencies larger than a small city block? What if someone appoints themselves spokesperson for the city, the country, the world? Who gets to speak on behalf of women, minorities, the younger generation?

It seems obvious who should get to speak on behalf of, say, women: a woman. Women are best placed to know what life is like for them, since they’ve had to deal with the crap the world throws at them for being women, and they’ve had time and incentive to think about it. But can any woman represent the entire gender? Historically that hasn’t worked out so well: often you get a rich privileged person making sweeping claims about what it’s like for everyone, and they miss all sorts of things that aren’t part of their own experience.

One solution, of course, is to have more than one spokesperson—in this case, rich women, poor women, women of various races, various ages, various professions—so that everyone can be represented. But that may turn out to be a recipe for having, in effect, 4 billion spokeswomen. So it’s always going to have to be a balance. You’re not going to get perfect representation, but it’s really important to have somebody: if you're a member of a disadvantaged group, you need other group members to speak up on my behalf.

And yet if our spokespeople are going to be different from us in all kinds of ways, why could’t they be, say, of a different gender? After all, sometimes a woman isn’t around to speak up on behalf of other women—like in a locker room, for example, when men are saying horrible things. Does that that guy just need to sit down and shut up as soon as he gets outside the locker room? Sometimes it’s strategically advantageous to be represented by an outsider, like when Bono convinced the George W. Bush administration to put tons of money into AIDS funding for Africa. Given the unfortunate way the world is, they weren’t listening to people in the countries concerned—and Bono made a difference.

Of course we may not want to rely on loud-mouthed crooners with a white savior complex, and our guest, Wendy Salkin, whose new book is Speaking For Others, will surely have some proposals for how to best manage having people speak on our behalf.

 

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LinaJH

Wednesday, October 2, 2024 -- 7:36 AM

Usually, in place of such

Usually, in place of such people, we want to see people who are similar to us, or at least who have similar experiences. But it often happens when those who have no similar experience teach us how to do it. For example, writers of books about raising children who do not have them, as well as experience in raising children. This is interesting.

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